Before You Burn the House Down

Before You Burn the House Down

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The most crucial component to relationship work is self work
Critical components of change in a partnership lay in our ability to face our own defenses and stand in our vulnerability over and over again.
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Lisa Pisha, MS, LMFT
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Saying the word "vulnerable" doesn't make you vulnerable
“Can I be vulnerable for a second here?”
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Lisa Pisha, MS, LMFT
"I think I married the wrong person."
What happens when we find ourselves reckoning with regret over our partner choice and what to do about it first.
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Lisa Pisha, MS, LMFT
hold unfolding just unfolded itself into a new name
If things look a little different around here, they should. hold unfolding is now before you burn the house down
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Lisa Pisha, MS, LMFT
Matters of the heart are the most tender matters that exist in our human being
They require the most love
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Lisa Pisha, MS, LMFT
I know these feet. I know this ground.
The wave that had come was no longer my concern, the only concern I had was where my feet were. In a micro-moment of holding, I’d undone.
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Lisa Pisha, MS, LMFT
Holding the unfolding in a crisis of identity. Daily.
The work never ends and sometimes, somedays, that's brutal. But then there's a shift, ever so slightly, and you begin to realize, it's actually…
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Lisa Pisha, MS, LMFT
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